As women we have always had the burden of following rules imposed on us by the societies we live in. Ladies we all know that from the day we were able to talk we have been told how to act, talk, behave, dress, socialize and even how to think. It’s time we put a stop to this stigma, lift our heads up and stride like the lioness we all are.
As humans we were born with zero knowledge on how to walk or talk let alone simple everyday operations. We have fallen stumbled and have made bruises along the way, but look at us now walking running and jumping around. My dear girls, life is the same. Our early twenties is when we stagger through life making so many mistakes and scarring ourselves. It’s the same with you me and every girl you see. Nobody is perfect and everyone makes mistakes so forgive yourself, love yourself and empower yourself for growth. Don’t know how, well let me give you some pointers.
1. Trust your gut
Women have the amazing power of intuition. Ladies, you have to trust your instinct. We have the ability of identifying a toxic situation or person as the moment something is not right there so many red flags that pop up. Realize these red flags for what they are and walk away form that situation or person.
2. Avoid negativity
Cut toxic people out of your life. Do not be manipulated by people who just dampen your light by their darkness. Cut out that sort of negativity from your life. Be open to people who bring out the best in you. Life is such it is inevitable that we do come across negative toxic people, but it is up to you to identify them for what they are and keep yourself safe and positive.
3. Stop worrying about what others think
No matter how good you are you will always be too fat, too thin , too nice, too lazy , annoying to somebody. So stop trying to please everyone and do you with confidence. Be and embrace your authentic self as long as it does not harm anyone else. When you love yourself and project that charming confidence you radiate such positivity that it attracts people towards you. You might think oh that girl has prettier hair than mine, she speaks English better than me. Ladies, I ask you, so what? You have the power to be the best version of yourself.
4. Move on from you ex
I know this is difficult, but something that can ease the pain is to embrace it. Always remember there was a reason that it didn’t work out and that you couldn’t work it out. Give it time during which do not try to contact your ex. Give yourself time to heal and you will be fine.
5. Stop worrying about ending up alone
Ladies never feel desperate and never settle for anything less than what you dreamed of. You know you are a string bold woman and never let anyone tell you otherwise. You know what you deserve and wait till you find that. Stay single and love yourself and everything around you, your friends and family will always be there for you